10 Ways to Simplify in a Fast World
Living simply in a fast-paced world often feels like swimming upstream. We’re surrounded by endless to-do lists, the constant pull of consumerism, and the pressure to be everything to everyone. For me, simplifying isn’t about slowing down to the point of stagnation—it’s about moving off autopilot, tuning into the rhythms of life, and creating space for what truly matters.
Even when I am in a busy season, I actively look for ways to simplify my life. Some days this works, other days I feel overwhelmed and exhausted. When that happens, I remind myself that it is just one day, not every day. And I think about ways I can make tomorrow better.
1. Align Your Life with the Seasons
One of the reasons I love the Wheel of the Year offers a framework for simplifying your life by tuning into nature’s cycles. In spring, I focus on renewal—clearing clutter and planting new ideas. Summer invites me to embrace abundance and joy, while autumn is a time to let go of what no longer serves me. Winter reminds me to rest and reflect.
Aligning my actions with these seasonal energies brings a natural sort of flow and purpose to my life. For example, during the quieter months of winter, I take on low-spend challenges or reflect on my long-term financial goals. It is not a time that I bust out big house projects.
2. Start with Your Priorities
Simplifying isn’t about doing less—it’s about doing what matters most. Take time to identify your top priorities, whether it’s nurturing your health, spending more time with family, or pursuing a creative passion. Let these priorities guide your decisions, both big and small. And acknowledge that priorities can shift. For example, my priority right now is nursing school. As much as I’d love to tackle some bigger projects in my house, I know that now is not the time. Nursing school will be done in one year, and I know once it is finished I will have the bandwidth to do more things.
3. Simplify Your Spending
Mindful spending has been a game-changer for me. Before making a purchase, I ask myself, Does this align with the life I’m building? This mindset has helped me move away from impulse buys and focus on quality over quantity.
If you’re looking to simplify your spending, I recommend trying a low-spend month or auditing your subscriptions. You’d be surprised how freeing it feels to cancel services you don’t truly need.
[Looking at you, Netflix.]
4. Invest in Tools, Not Clutter
When I do spend money, I aim to invest in tools that simplify my life, like my trusty cast-iron skillet or a well-made journal that helps me unwind and clear my head.
5. Tend to Your Space
A cluttered home often leads to a cluttered mind. At least, that’s how it is for me. I’ve found that taking time to tend to my space—whether it’s organizing a drawer, mending a favorite sweater, or repurposing items I already have—creates a sense of calm and clarity.
6. Embrace DIY Where It Makes Sense
Simplifying doesn’t mean you have to do everything yourself, but learning a few DIY skills can be helpful. I’ve taught myself to mend clothes and tackle small home repairs, which not only saves money but also deepens my connection to my belongings.
That said, it’s okay to call in help when you need it. Simplifying isn’t about martyrdom—it’s about making choices that serve your life as a whole.
7. Create Time for Rest and Reflection
In our fast-paced world, rest often feels like a luxury. But the Wheel of the Year reminds us that rest is essential for growth. Winter is my favorite season for reflection—I journal about what worked, what didn’t, and how I want to move forward.
Two weeks into my nursing program I had to have one-on-one with myself and acknowledge that the pace of life wasn’t working. I HAD to figure out a way to slow down and have some down time between work and school. I bought a three month membership to my local gym and my walking buddy and I resumed our weekly walks, using the gym’s indoor track. When I’m working from home, I try to hop on my treadmill a couple of times a day for 10 - 15 minutes, to get my blood moving and improve my mood.
Consider carving out small moments of rest each day. It could be as simple as enjoying a cup of tea without distractions or taking a walk in nature to clear your mind.
8. Make Space for Joyful, Free Activities
Not everything that brings joy requires money. Some of my favorite moments are those spent stargazing, journaling, or walking in the woods during autumn. These activities not only simplify my life but also help me feel more connected to the world around me.
9. Reframe “Simplicity” as Intentionality
Sometimes, simplifying means spending money or outsourcing tasks to create space for what truly matters. For instance, hiring a repair person might save you hours of frustration, allowing you to spend that time with loved ones or tending to your health. Simplicity doesn’t always look like minimalism—it’s about living with intention.
10. Use the Wheel of the Year to Check In
Each season, I take time to reflect on where I am and where I’m going. Am I living in alignment with my values? Are my daily choices supporting the life I want to create? These seasonal check-ins help me stay grounded and ensure that I’m simplifying in ways that truly matter.
Books to Inspire Intentional Living
Here are a few books and authors that have inspired me:
The Year of Less by Cait Flanders
Simple Abundance by Sarah Ban Breathnach
The Art of Frugal Hedonism by Annie Raser-Rowland and Adam Grubb
Meet the Frugalwoods by Elizabeth Thames (I have listened to this on audible multiple times)
The Minimalist Home by Joshua Becker (The Minimalist documentary is also excellent)
Each of these books offers unique perspectives on how to slow down, simplify, and align your life with your values.
Simplicity Is a Journey, Not a Destination
Living simply in a fast world isn’t about achieving perfection—it’s about making intentional choices that bring you closer to the life you want to live. Some seasons will feel busy or chaotic, and that’s okay. What matters is that you keep coming back to your values, adjusting as needed, and creating space for what truly matters.
How can you simplify your life today? Maybe it’s canceling a subscription, taking a walk in nature, or reflecting on the season’s lessons. Wherever you are on your journey, remember: simplicity isn’t about doing less—it’s about living more.
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Free Room Refresh Planning Guide
While we’re still a few weeks out from crocus and daffodils, spring is definitely in the air at my house. The March sunshine is warm and the wind is boisterous as it weaves in and out of the pines. The air is full of anticipation and joy - winter is over and another summer beckons.
I’ve started putting together my spring cleaning list, and in the spirit of slow living I am determined to keep my expectations reasonable about what I can actually accomplish in the fickle Maine weather. My usual M.O. is to list out every possible thing that needs to be done around the house and yard, and then feel like an utter disappointment when I come nowhere near finishing everything on the list. This year I’m tackling a few key projects that should only take a few hours each, along with the standard raking, pruning, playing-in-the-dirt fun of springtime.
Top on my list of projects is giving my living room a room refresh. What is a room refresh, you ask? A room refresh is when I make over a room with minimal-to-no-spending. And is one of my favorite things to do. I bought paint for the living room last fall, so technically this room refresh isn’t completely free. But I don’t anticipate having to purchase anything else. Along with a general cleaning and a fresh coat of paint, I’m planning to give my sofa and area rug a deep clean, using a carpet cleaner borrowed from a friend; swap out the existing artwork and photos with ones from other rooms in the house; and add in some new houseplants which I propagated from my favorite pothos plant. After two years of being home pretty much all of the time, my goal is to make this space feel light and airy and brand new.
If you’re interested in tackling some spaces in your home, I’ve put together this room refresh planner to help you get started. I hope you like it!
After my book writing declaration of last week, I’ve been digging into research and sorting copious amounts of notes, determined not only to get a working draft of a book finished, but also to have plenty of great content for Mabon House. And while I love doing research, it can quickly become overwhelming because I want to include all the information in whatever I am writing about.
So to get some perspective, I thought why not ask all of you what you’d like to see more of on Mabon House. If you have a couple of minutes I would love to hear from you. I’ve put together this short anonymous questionnaire/poll, to make it easy to share your ideas for Mabon House.
Thursdays are fast becoming my favorite day of the week because it’s when I receive so many kind messages from all of you. I know some of you have been going through rough times and while I’m not able to answer every email, I just want to say that I am thinking of you. And I’m glad you are here in the Mabon House community. And thank you to the folks who take the time to send me kind words and encouragement. It really means a lot!
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How I Deal With Contrast in Life
Hello Friends,
I hope this finds you well and safe wherever you are. The sun is shining here in Maine and the weather finally feels like it is turning. Stubborn ice is slowly giving way to the warming earth and I can feel the release of some of the tension I’ve been carrying around. Life has been full of contrast the last few weeks and I’ve been trying to approach unexpected hurdles with a better attitude. I tend to be a bit of a control freak about my schedule and plans; when these get interrupted I may look cool on the outside, but on the inside I am spiraling like a toddler who needs a nap.
Over the years I’ve gotten a lot better about being less reactionary to unwanted situations and going with the flow of life, instead of fighting it. This has taken a lot of practice and I am still a work in progress. But I’ve found that life is infinitely better if I can keep my thoughts in check and take a beat to assess what is really going on, versus what the hyper-anxious voice in my head is telling me. Yes, I am a joy and delight to be around when the unexpected happens.
When I start to feel overwhelmed by things happening around me, I try to take some time to refocus on my personal goals and general vision for my life - what I want to be, do and have. And how I want to feel in my life. Some might refer to this as the Law of Attraction, or faith, or being in the vortex. I think of it as giving myself a reminder that even if the present moment isn’t great, that it will pass. Good things happen all the time and I am not obligated to carry on in despair just because one area of my life is out of alignment.
Note - this isn’t about being happy all the time or ignoring glaring problems in life. Toxic positivity is just as bad as constant negativity.
When an unwanted situation comes up and there is an immediate action I can take to feel better, I take it. But if the problem is more in my head, like when I start to ruminate about all the things that could go wrong in life, I gently release the worry as much as I can. I get busy with other things and focus my attention on areas that bring me joy. Does this work every time? Absolutely not. Do I still carry around more anxiety than I want to at times? Heck yeah. But I am definitely able to keep a better perspective about what is happening and acknowledge that whatever the problem is, it’s a passing cloud in life and the sky isn’t actually falling. And, as an additional affirmation, I remind myself even if the sky did fall, I am incredibly resourceful and creative and could put it back together in some fashion. ;)
This Week’s Free Printable
All of this pontification about contrast and flowing with life rather than paddling upstream, as Abraham Hicks likes to say, inspired this week’s printable: A day planner that focuses on what you want in life, rather than all the to-dos, must-dos, should-dos that often weigh us down. In our quest to conquer our schedules we often forget about what really lights us up. So, I hope this printable helps you focus on your spark and light in life.
Along with making printables as a distraction from life, I’ve been enjoying a new channel on YouTube - Roaming Wild Rosie. If you have ever dreamed of escaping to the woods and living in a little cabin by yourself, you might like Rosie’s content. She recently purchased a little red cabin in the woods of Sweden and is fixing it up by herself. I found it was the perfect antidote to life at the moment.
I hope that your corner of the world is safe and you are able to take a moment and enjoy the approaching spring equinox and Ostara celebration. I’ll see you next week!
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